Monday, April 13, 2009

Best Friends.True Friend

People might think that i have a lot of friends in my life..
but when talk about best friends, those i always spend time and travel with.. those i used to hang out with almost every week after grad from form 5.. those who used to lead de scout team 2gether with, camp 2gether, shared all hard times 2gether.. those i used to tuition 2gether with, do silly stuffs, sleep in the class, ponteng class, had a lot of fun, sharing our problems...
they are all my best friends, sisters, scout buddies, ever since we're in high school and also in Uni now..
i treat all of them as my best friends, but im not sure whether im or still their best friend..
cause we don't used to contact each other frequently, but promise i'll meet up with them when i have the chance..
to some people, they define best friends as those who they keep in touch almost everyday to make sure that the friendship tie is still strong..
but to me, i don't think it's neccesary to contact all of them everyday, cause we all have our own life now at different places..as long as i'm still breathing, they remain as my best friends..this is my concept of best friends. i used to spend a long period of time with them or experience life 2gether, their position can't be simply erased from my heart..

what about true friends? how do one define it?
true friends will be there for you when you're having a hard time and they don't ask for anything as return.
in my view, best friends are not neccesarily true friends, but true friends are best friends...
hmm..might sounds a bit like a theory..*wahahaa
seriously, this is what i think..and true friends are really hard to find..you don't know who is your true friends until the right moment comes..

in my case..it happened yesterday, when i had no place to go after came back from genting..
cause my relatives are going for dinner at 7pm and they cannot be late.. it was out of our expectation that there'll be a dinner, so i took the late bus back from genting, thus i cannot reach in time to join them..
the worse is, nobody's home and i don't have a key..
at dat moment, my mood was really down..suddenly had a 'homeless' feel and really feel unsafe cause i don't know where can i go.. you've just got to take it adopt yourself well escially when you're at people's place..
i thought of my friends who studied at TARC in wangsa maju..
the first person i thought of is wey jye, if you ask me why..maybe it's because i think that he a reliable person and a very good friend...*lol
finally he didn't disappoint me, he really helped me out by dropping my at his place for a while..
to me, it's better than anywhere else by that time cause i was totally exhausted..juz slpt for 2 hours at the previous day..
i'm glad that i still can find someone who are able to lend me a hand when im in difficulty.. it'll be a hard time to go through it alone..
and im glad that i've found at least one true friend...i don't urge for more, cause im happy enough to know i have a true friend.. * =)



p/s: Thanks ya wey jye..haha...

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

sorry la...i wasnt around d other day

X u A n i E said...

yalo...no heart la u....pit me alone....xob!

love said...

wei i wrote comment here but it show at the blog coment below sienz....no cum find me siennzzz......haha kidding xD

X u A n i E said...

where u wrote it??? tink u might b busy watching fren's store ma..so din call u lo...wahahha.... im having my finals dis mon, damn la wei..haha

Anonymous said...

where gt pit...lucky i called u the other day...otherwise i sure guilty...does that mean anything?hahhahaha...yea..thx for weyJ xD