A few weeks ago my mom want to ask me something on labour law but I haven't take the course yet so I can't tell her about what I know. So the problem remains in secrecy until today, my mom finally told me about the conflict between my uncle and his company. He was previously working at a company operates by my relatives. What I heard is that the big boss wanted to set him due to dissatisfaction of his performance which were partly complained by anonymous to the boss. It's really heart broken to hear about this as my uncle has worked at the company for so many years and although sometimes he might be late to work, but they shouldn't treat him like this. They should have give him some warnings if they are unsatisfied with his performance or that he had claim expenses for his vehicle! I believe not only my uncle had done that among other employees. It is so heart broken to heard about this because the relative who is the main shareholder is quite close to us. Despite disappointed, my uncle and aunt felt so heartache and dropped some tears when they told my mom about this. I can feel the heartache too! My mom actually told me not to tell anyone about this but I just have to say it!
From this matter, I have learned - if you want to a job, don't work with your relative especially if it is your first job. As you work, you not only work with your energy, there are feelings among relatives too and it will hurt more or less when something unhappy happens and you can't take any action against it because they are your relatives and you have to pay your respect to them! Back stabber is someone you cannot avoid, if you met back stabber, you're just not that lucky. Fuck them cause I hate back stabbers too! My friend once advice me not to seek attachment from chinese firm because chinese are mostly selfish and stingy. I think it's quite true but there are also exceptions. The best boss I ever know is my eldest uncle! He is very kind to everyone and I really respect him very much! Things happen in the community and sometimes you might feel helpless. My mom told me that I should learn to tolerate and don't behave in such a direct way because in the end the one who will suffer loss is myself. It is hard to adapt oneself in the society especially when you start your first step to the working society. I think I will have some hard time when I reach there as I have a straight forward personality. Well, I already have some "tries" in the university now and I'm still learning the way of adaptation and change if it is needed.
I hope my uncle can get rid of this matter soon. I really hope that I am capable to help him.....aikx.
By the way, I went to the temple with my mom and made a divination on my love matter or the so-called '姻缘'. I was just simply curious and concern about it. Sadly I got a bad stalk! It says that I will meet many problems and the person who I referred to ask me to throw it away and I said I should. Actually he means the relationship and I mean the fortune telling paper (don't know the exact term). Haha.. I just took it as a reference anyway, nothing serious. I believe with great power, everything can be solved. Just let go and have a great day. :)
From this matter, I have learned - if you want to a job, don't work with your relative especially if it is your first job. As you work, you not only work with your energy, there are feelings among relatives too and it will hurt more or less when something unhappy happens and you can't take any action against it because they are your relatives and you have to pay your respect to them! Back stabber is someone you cannot avoid, if you met back stabber, you're just not that lucky. Fuck them cause I hate back stabbers too! My friend once advice me not to seek attachment from chinese firm because chinese are mostly selfish and stingy. I think it's quite true but there are also exceptions. The best boss I ever know is my eldest uncle! He is very kind to everyone and I really respect him very much! Things happen in the community and sometimes you might feel helpless. My mom told me that I should learn to tolerate and don't behave in such a direct way because in the end the one who will suffer loss is myself. It is hard to adapt oneself in the society especially when you start your first step to the working society. I think I will have some hard time when I reach there as I have a straight forward personality. Well, I already have some "tries" in the university now and I'm still learning the way of adaptation and change if it is needed.
I hope my uncle can get rid of this matter soon. I really hope that I am capable to help him.....aikx.
By the way, I went to the temple with my mom and made a divination on my love matter or the so-called '姻缘'. I was just simply curious and concern about it. Sadly I got a bad stalk! It says that I will meet many problems and the person who I referred to ask me to throw it away and I said I should. Actually he means the relationship and I mean the fortune telling paper (don't know the exact term). Haha.. I just took it as a reference anyway, nothing serious. I believe with great power, everything can be solved. Just let go and have a great day. :)
2 comments:
never try to work with someone who have any relationship with u. because if anything happens,the bond will break.
i agree!.. this is so true.
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