Shoot!

Just imagine you went out to yam cha with some friends at 9pm at somewhere nearby your house. Your last time yam cha session with friends was weeks ago and you hardly arrange a meeting with your friends during your two months break. You guys were talking and laughing on something and while you were on the peak of the talk, your family called and asked you to go home immediately otherwise they’ll lock the door. It wasn’t even 11pm yet! What the shit….

To whom who I wish them to read this:

You need to give me some trust so that I can pay you my respect. I too, need to be respected in front of my friends and I need you to respect my friends. Going home late does not mean that girl/boy is bad. Going home late doesn’t mean that I was messing around with some bad guys or doing some bad things outside and I, we know that the public safety is getting worse now. I wouldn’t want myself to get hurt too! I understand you’re just TOO CARE and TOO SERIOUS (only on this issue, how pathetic!) about me but I know where and what I’m doing. It’s already 2010 this year, we are not in year 1990 anymore. You can’t make someone to be conservative like you because we have different minds. If you’re born in the old times and being conservatism, please accept other people to be modern and open because I can accept you to be who you are and I respect you. You just have to catch up with the modern age, time won’t stay and people won’t stay too! The surroundings have developed and changed! It’s normal to know someone of my age had already 2 kids and got married! It’s normal to know that the girl next door aged 15 is not a virgin anymore! I’m not pregnant (just an example and no special meaning but even if someday I am and I’m not married, the liability and responsibility is on me), and I just want to have some tea and chat!  I just want to yam cha and have some talks with my friends, in peace. Just like you, you (aunties) love to chat at home all the day but why can’t I just have a few hours with my friends?! That is so unfair! (nothing is fair in this world) 12am is acceptable and I know how to go home. It’s just too over to ask me to go home at 11pm (although just a gap of an hour but 11pm is way too early)! The seat was not even heated by my butt yet.

If you restrict me more, I’ll go against you. But if I have freedom that I wish to have, I won’t misuse it. In contrary I might respect you more and might automatically go home early even if you don’t call.

You

just

don’t

understand

me.

(have to stress this)

Not every children can be taught in the same way, with the same methods. Think of it.

Just criticized whatever craps if you have ever read this. I don’t care. You make me feel like…not going home anymore. Just a little trust and freedom are all I needed!

 

 

p/s: Just letting out some grumpiness so that I can achieve psychological balance. This is good for mental health